Am I wrong?

Am I wrong for wanting to split bills by income, not 50/50?

He makes three times what I make. We split everything down the middle. Then he told me to "budget better."

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Am I wrong for being upset about phones at dinner?

I made his favorite meal. He laughed at a video the whole time. When I said something, he said I was on my phone "all the time too."

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Am I wrong for not wanting every holiday with their family?

Seven Christmases in a row at his parents’ house. My mom set a place for me anyway, every single year.

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Am I wrong that my roommate’s boyfriend basically lives here?

He showers here, works from our couch, and wears my robe. He has never paid a single bill.

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Am I wrong for asking the roommate with the bigger room to pay more?

Her room has a walk-in closet and its own bathroom. Mine has a window that looks at a wall. We pay exactly the same.

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Am I wrong for leaving dishes in the sink overnight?

I wash them every morning. Every single morning. My roommate left me a note that said "We need to talk about the sink."

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Am I wrong for not hosting Thanksgiving this year?

Five years. Twenty-two people. One sister who brings rolls still in the bag. This year, I said no.

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Am I wrong for suggesting a gift budget with my siblings?

Last Christmas I put $900 on a credit card for nieces and nephews. I suggested a $50 limit. My brother called it "cheap."

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Am I wrong for not splitting the bill evenly when I only had a salad?

They ordered three bottles of wine and the steak tower. I had a side salad and water. Then someone said, "Let us just split it."

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Am I wrong for canceling plans when I am exhausted?

I bailed on her birthday drinks an hour before. She texted back: "You always do this. It is starting to feel personal."

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Am I wrong for not answering work messages after hours?

11:42 pm on a Saturday: "Quick question." By Monday, she had told our manager I was "hard to reach."

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Am I wrong for calling out a coworker who took credit for my work?

Three weeks of my nights and weekends. He presented it to the VP like it was his. So I said something, in the team chat.

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